By - Strugglecuddle7
The fact I've never been loved or been in a relationship. Every single day I have to find the motivation to keep going off with my shitty life and responsiblities, when no one's ever cared if I even exist.
Fuck buddy I know exactly how you feel. Some days all I can do to stop myself from ending it is to get Hella drunk and passout.
Yeah I did the same thing but with weed. I'm in med school so I have shit to fill my days with but it doesn't matter when I'm alone.
Med school? Man you got some serious potential at your finger tips.
And no woman has ever cared, lol.
Well, nobody cares about me. And I'm not in med school, so at least you've got that.
Congrats, you're not in debt, don't have to socialize with privileged nerds with personality disorders, or have to deal with the stresses of constantly not being good enough.
Bro you're not alone. I'm in debt, found out my ex's love for me was purely conditional, and have zero friends. I came on reddit only yesterday so I could maybe find some reprieve from my depression. Maybe find like-minded people to talk too and hopefully maybe just once feel like I'm not a giant piece of shit waste of skin.
Well sorry, I would be ecstatic to have an ex, so it's hard for me to have sympathy for your situation.
Thats not true. God loves you and ur family too
If he loves me, why did he force me to grow up 23 years as a virgin? Why did he force me to attempt suicide? God does not love me.
You should end the chapter, not the whole book.
Would if I could, but god is no help there either.
I understand how you are feeling, but think of how many good experiences your still gonna have. You have to prioritize your mental health first, have faith, find new friends, focus on yourself and your goals. You will see time will heal everything
Doesn't explain why I couldn't have one relationship in high school or college.
You just didnt find the one yet
There is no such thing as the one
With the one i mean the right person for you
I'm not a religious man, quite the opposite in fact but believe me when I say that there's someone out their that will love and adore you,if not so already! Stick in med school man, you have the potential to help many people! You've achieved more already them many people.
Yeah I have the potential to help so many people, and not one woman has given a shit, lmao.
Stick with it.... One day you will spark someone's interest! Could be anywhere! You may have already done it and not picked up on it.
Try again mate! Life is too short for what if's.
It's a funny old game mate! Stick at it , It might be worth doing a bit of research on how to communicate with women, although I'm sure it will all fall into place for you. Best of luck.
There’s a d in fridge but not refrigerator
Thanks ..... That's going to bug the hell out of me now.
Yeah I can't sleep if I see one in my bedroom! I have to hunt it down before I can get a wink of sleep!
I hope you feel better soon!
Someone posted a political question and it turned out to just be down vote bait.
Yeah I tend to steer clear of political stuff on Reddit!
I’ve had a mild headache for almost 8 hours now. I’ve eaten. I’ve drank lots of water, I took two doses of aspirin 6 hours apart, and nothing has helped. Send help.
Dark silent room? Sleep? Doctor? Hope the headache fucks right off soon for ya buddy.
I am very sorry to say, you probably need to turn off the electronic screens and go for a walk outside. Or try to take a nap. Good luck.
My ex is currently in the military and lives on the opposite side of the county from me. He gets out this year and is moving back near where I currently live. He's not abusive but I'm terrified he might make my life a stressful hell when he's back...
May I ask why you think that and in what ways would he make your life stressful?
Back in January when I first tried to move away from him i explained to my family a bit on why im getting a divorce with him like how he slept with his old friend while we were separated but still living together, he pushes my boundaries a lot, and how i'm not in the best place mentally to be taking care of our child. He told everyone I normally talk to about a lot of personal information about myself from my depression/attempts, anxiety, sex life, how I have no bond with my son, nearly every secret I had was now out to the only people I trust, because i told my few close family members that he slept with some other chick and seemingly made him out to be the "bad guy." He also made me think that no one cared about me and practically black mailed me (by threatening to take my cat during the divorce and one other thing) into moving back with him. So I ended up moving back with him for like 3 weeks before he decided I should just go. Since I have officially moved back in with my mom he has been trying to persuade me into being friends with benefits with him or having a relationship in the future. I'm scared of telling him no that he may make my life hell by coming to my work or home to degrade me, coming after me for child support which is like 30% of my minimum wage income when we agreed I'd chip in 10% since he has a nice paying job lined up for him when he moves (my mom doesnt want me living with her for too long and losing 30% of my income would mean i cant afford an apartment), or something else that could be worse.. and i really can't handle stress right now so the whole situation with him freaks me out.
That I realized how much fatphobia still exists. Just depressing and infuriating.
Yeah I know somewhat about this as my partner has struggled with her weight for many years! She had a gastric band and lost 13 stone about ten years ago but the band slipped and nearly killed her! She struggles everyday with her body image and doesn't rarely go out due to her thinking what people must think of her, but I love her and wouldn't changer her for the world!
You are a good and worthy person. So as your friend
Thanks, I haven't always been a nice human, I've done some awful things in my life but I'm trying to be a nicer person! As Rik mayall once said "love will set you free"
No matter how hard I try, I can never be good at anything
Can you elaborate? Do you mean hobbies, jobs, relationship's or just life in general? I've failed at all these and many times over and I'm near 40!
Nah literally just everything lol
Na there's something that you you are good at, you just haven't found it yet! Variety is the spice of life.
Well after almost 30 years, it's still eluded me
I've personally never mastered anything! I've come to the conclusion that I know a little about a lot of things.
going through a very difficult breakup. missing him very much today and wondering how i will ever get through this
You will get through it! You probably can't see the light at the end of the tunnel at the moment but believe me it's there! Try and get out into nature.
I've been gaining a lot of weight, Need to push my ass into gym
Just getting the motivation is the hardest part! I've put on a couple of stone myself, I used to do a hundred odd miles a week on my road bike but got back into eating biscuits and playing games again. Me and my partner have spurred each other on to lose some weight together, I've dug my bike out and managed 50 miles this week. My point is there's other ways to lose weight! Cycling,walking and many other sports! Good luck to ya buddy
The world is going to shit. Our elected "leaders" arent leading a damn thing! The youth are so distrought that their way of expressing themselves are mass shootings that take place just about EVERYDAY. The working adults are simply too burnt out to care. While the news covers johnny depp and amber heard. Its a shitshow to say the least in america right now.
I'm from the UK so I don't have any first hand experience of what's going on in America right now although I do see bits of it in our news, the mass shootings are horrific! And just like America we too have idiotic/ corrupt government officials that just don't seem to care or relate to anyone other then the rich 1% of which they are apart of! The world is a shit show at the moment!
THAT group from high school.
me and my friendship group have had issues with another friendship group for quite some time, but it recently started to stop as we’re all turning 18 and don’t have time for silly arguments constantly.
well, we had someone new join our group and her and i started talking and eventually dating.
the group we had problems with in the past took that as an opportunity to pick up where they left off, particularly targeting my now girlfriend. she’s not very confrontational, and they only strike for a reaction, so you can imagine some of the stuff they come out with.
one of them hacked my old snapchat that i haven’t used for about 2 years which unfortunately had a video of me and a friend doing inappropriate things when we were drunk on it, someone who is one of my best friends to this day.
they spread this video about and convinced my girlfriend i was cheating.
may i remind you that we are all adults.
my friends, girlfriend and i just want to go about our lives and even try to be civil/friendly with the group to keep peace. but they aren’t having it. fml
I have a turd this very moment stuck halfway in and halfway out. I can’t seem to get it to go one direction nor the other. So I am just sitting here. I don’t know what to do.
Push your feet up so you're tip toeing and rock back and forth a bit? Usually works for me, oh and eat more fibre and stay hydrated! Let me know of the outcome.
the stress of trying to make friends as an adult. I recently moved to another side of town, and my partner has lived on this side for years. I know a lot of people, and a lot of words have been spoken in regards to “let’s get together” etc etc. there is never really any follow through though, on either part. half of it is I am an adult with a job and other responsibilities, the other half is I am TIRED of putting myself out on a limb and feeling like a fool. It doesn’t stop people from saying to my partner “oh I want to hang out with sneefs, please pass the message along” which he then says I need to be the one to put forth all effort. I get it- I do need to put forth effort. but in this day and age of social media, they don’t need to tell him, they can get in contact with me directly. it feels performative, like they can say they tried while I did nothing. when I do reach out I get very little response. I completely understand that sometimes people do not have the mental or emotional bandwidth for life in general, and I am not owed any form of friendship or what have you. it just gets tiring to constantly put on a smile and put yourself out there for nothing.
The back of my mouth keeps going Dry and gives me the feeling that i want to gag
Try gargling mouthwash?
*m y e x i s t e n c e*
Im trying my best but often life is just too overwhelming and it gets to me because all i really want is to be happy.
R/askreddit stupid fucking questions like this. This sub is a plague on New.
I apologise if I have annoyed you.
Your existence annoys people.
That's not the first the that's been said to me.
The person im trying to get over with. I got to see them every day at school
Everytime you see them then remind yourself how much better your life is and will be without them. It may hurt at first but not everyone is supposed to stay with us
Thanks. Do you think its better completely ignoring them or just remain “friends”
I’ve always gotten over people easily by just dropping them out of my life. Like if it comes up where we have to interact I act friendly not to stir up drama.
Besides that tho, some people can remain friends after if the friendship was meant to be. However for some it’s just not. And depending on how things left off or how/who they are it might be better to just not have them around.
Furthermore, if you are trying to get over someone and keep spending time around them even as “friends” may make it a bit harder
Time heals all wounds, it will get easier!